The honest truth about fatherhood, loss, masculinity, and rebuilding yourself when no one’s watching.

Most men don’t talk about it.
Some don’t know how.
Others were never shown it mattered.

This is for the dads who stay silent.
The ones who show up anyway.

“No man stands taller than when he stoops to help a child.”

– Abraham Lincoln

This isn’t a parenting blog.

There are no “10 hacks to be a better dad” here.
No perfect routines.
No curated moments.

This is about:

  • Loving your kids when you don’t get them every day
  • Grieving parents who shaped you and then disappeared
  • Carrying responsibility without applause
  • Being strong without pretending you’re fine

If you’ve ever felt invisible as a man or a father, you’re in the right place.

  • Big Fat Quiz Of The Year

    https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-sqy29-1162731 In a rap up to 2021 and our first year of podcasting, we end the year with our final podcast, few drinks and a big fat quiz. Read more

  • “I wouldn’t stay here again out of 10”

    “I wouldn’t stay here again out of 10”

    Although we only booked this holiday a short time ago, it feels like we have been waiting for this holiday for a lifetime, im not sure why that happens but as soon as you officially have something booked the sands of time seem to flow with the momentum of a 100 year old giant tortoise. Read more

  • Lee Bridges – Ep#24 – Do S*** Get S*** Done

    https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-eypjg-1148217 Lee Bridges Author of the Book Do S*** Get S*** Done https://www.amazon.co.uk/TRANSITION-G… This week the lads sat down with fellow Brit and author Lee Bridges, Lee details his journey into becoming an author he never thought he would be after battling addiction for a number of years. Read more

  • Happiness 

    Happiness 

    in the Bible, it is said that a rich man entering heaven is like a camel entering the eye of a needle, which is impossible. If you think that heaven is a point in space and a place you go to, then this makes little sense, but if you equate, for academic purposes, that heaven, Read more

  • A Year On From The BLM Protest 

    A Year On From The BLM Protest 

    I’m thinking about what we’ve learnt over the past year since protests erupted in cities all across the West in the name of #blacklivesmatter. Black Lives Matter (BLM) is an organisation that emerged on the internet after the death of Trayvon Martin in 2013, according to Black Lives Matter, “the movement is an ideological and Read more

  • Break Ups – Lads Honest Opinion

    https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-ip42g-113edee Break Ups! we’ve all been there, either being dumped or doing the dumping break ups really suck, in today’s podcast the lads get deep about the reasons couples break up and lads really feel about them. Read more

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Paphos

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Thailand

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Las Vegas

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Morocco

My Thoughts on being a father ~

“From the moment I heard I was going to be a father, I knew my world would never be the same.”