The honest truth about fatherhood, loss, masculinity, and rebuilding yourself when no one’s watching.
Most men don’t talk about it.
Some don’t know how.
Others were never shown it mattered.
This is for the dads who stay silent.
The ones who show up anyway.
“No man stands taller than when he stoops to help a child.”
– Abraham Lincoln
This isn’t a parenting blog.
There are no “10 hacks to be a better dad” here.
No perfect routines.
No curated moments.
This is about:
- Loving your kids when you don’t get them every day
- Grieving parents who shaped you and then disappeared
- Carrying responsibility without applause
- Being strong without pretending you’re fine
If you’ve ever felt invisible as a man or a father, you’re in the right place.

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Being Gay
I’m not ashamed to admit that I had a hard time coming to terms with the fact that my brothers and sisters were gay, I struggled with it for the longest time it wasn’t until I realised my feelings on the issue were irrational, illogical and incorrect. I didn’t want to accept that my brothers Read more
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Blended Family & Co-Parenting In Today‘s World
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-m5mkx-113b63d Blended Family & Co-Parenting – In today’s podcast the lads are joined by Kelly to discuss what it’s like co-parenting and blending families in today’s society. When 50% of all marriages end in divorce is it any wonder why more and more children are being raised in blended families. Read more
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My Review Of Benidorm
Where do we start with Benidorm? I guess let’s start with first impressions, arriving in Benidorm my head was ringing of the sounds of people telling me that Benidorm was Blackpool in the sun, but walking around the Old Town and the New Town I couldn’t be more surprised to find that it looked nothing Read more
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Being Single In Today‘s World – Lads Opinion
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-gdj3k-1121409 Being Single In today’s World – Just when you think your dating life can’t get any worse, someone asks what it is like to be single in today’s world. But don’t worry- the lads are here for all those struggling singletons out there and will answer every question! They discuss why guys stay unattached; Read more
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YX Official – Ep#23 – TikTok & Singing Sensation
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-sm5rg-1119975 YX Official – This week the lads sit down with TikTok and recording artist YX – YX talks about life growing up in Jersey with his Dad before blowing up on TikTok singing about his girlfriend. We recommend you go give some of his videos a watch, you won’t be disappointed. Loved Read more
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Where do you get your inspiration?
Recently I have found myself asking the question, where do people get their inspiration from? With most of us locked away in some quasi prison like state, during this nearly year of lockdowns and pub closures where does the spark come from? It’s said that J.K. Rowling was inspired to write Harry Potter whilst on Read more
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My Thoughts on being a father ~
“From the moment I heard I was going to be a father, I knew my world would never be the same.”



