The honest truth about fatherhood, loss, masculinity, and rebuilding yourself when no one’s watching.

Most men don’t talk about it.
Some don’t know how.
Others were never shown it mattered.

This is for the dads who stay silent.
The ones who show up anyway.

“No man stands taller than when he stoops to help a child.”

– Abraham Lincoln

This isn’t a parenting blog.

There are no “10 hacks to be a better dad” here.
No perfect routines.
No curated moments.

This is about:

  • Loving your kids when you don’t get them every day
  • Grieving parents who shaped you and then disappeared
  • Carrying responsibility without applause
  • Being strong without pretending you’re fine

If you’ve ever felt invisible as a man or a father, you’re in the right place.

  • Russia Invade Ukraine – View from the UK

    https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-c6eze-11c937e This week’s the dads discuss the item dominating the news agendas across the globe – The War in Ukraine. The dads discuss what’s happening, what can be done and what the end game is. Just 3 concerned dads, not military experts (even if Daz thinks 12 years Call of Duty is service) giving our Read more

  • A Wolf In Sheep’s Clothing

    A Wolf In Sheep’s Clothing

    A wolf in sheep’s clothing is an idiom of Biblical origin used to describe those playing a role contrary to their real character with whom contact is dangerous.The phrase comes from the Book of Isaiah, where God says to the prophet, “Beware of the false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing but inwardly are ravenousView… Read more

  • I have an unhealthy relationship…

    I have an unhealthy relationship…

    I have a really unhealthy relationship with alcohol, I mean don’t get me wrong I’m not an alcoholic (said the alcoholic) I don’t wake up in the morning needing a drink, but it has almost become necessary to have a good time in social situations. I know I am not alone in this, many men Read more

  • My friends ex is a …. 

    My friends ex is a …. 

    Life in today’s world is hard for everyone, it’s especially hard for men that somehow for one reason or another have found themselves living out of the home from their children. Many women believe that men go through life with very little cares “out of sight out of mind” but this is a social construct Read more

  • Lily Walford #Ep25 – International Dating Coach

    https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-hkriv-11772dc Lily Walford – International Dating Coach – Dating with a twist. Get your notepads ready lads, Lily is here to talk about dating into today’s world and give some pointers on how to approach people. Read more

  • People Watching.. 

    People Watching.. 

    I’m not much of a people watcher, my brain usually works at 100 MPH thinking about this or that, I don’t often pay much mind to what others are doing, but today is different. I have some time to kill this afternoon having just finished writing a blog I found myself without anything else on Read more

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My Thoughts on being a father ~

“From the moment I heard I was going to be a father, I knew my world would never be the same.”