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World Mental Health Day: It’s OK to Not Be OK (But We Still Don’t Talk About It)
Today is World Mental Health Day.You’ll see the usual posts, the green hearts, the motivational quotes, the company LinkedIn pages promising “We care.”And while all of that comes from a good place, tomorrow the world will move on. But for a lot of people, especially men, the noise in their head doesn’t stop when the…
When Black Children Are Macheted to Death: Why Are We Silent?
Imagine: babies, toddlers, entire families hacked to pieces with machetes. Not in a war zone televised by drones, but in villages in Nigeria’s so-called “Middle Belt,” Southern Kaduna, southern Plateau, and other contested zones. These are places where ethnic, religious, and land disputes intersect, where the strongest win and where the most vulnerable are slaughtered…
Parenting is Hard (and Single Parenting is Even Harder)
et’s be honest, men don’t always come wired with the same nurturing instincts as women. Maybe that’s controversial, but I’ve seen it first-hand. For a lot of blokes, we’ve been conditioned to play a role — go to work, bring home the money, dip in for the fun bits, and let mum manage the day-to-day…
When Did Listening Become a Lost Art?
Take Tommy Robinson. For many, his name alone ends the conversation. And yet, dismissing every word because of who speaks it is not the same as engaging with ideas. At the Freedom March in London, the crowd wasn’t simply caricatures of the far-right. Among them were ordinary people: middle-class women, professional men, those unsettled by…
“THEY KILLED CHARLIE KIRK — AND IN THE UK, THEY’RE ARRESTING YOU FOR A TWEET”
So here’s the brutal truth:
In the U.S., political violence is becoming lethal.
In the U.K., words are now crimes.
Across the Western world, free speech is collapsing
Cinema for One—A Love Letter to My Own Company
Monday night, 8:45 p.m. The foyer smells of nacho cheese and over-priced popcorn, and I’m wielding a ticket for a single seat in Row G seat 1. It has taken me forty years and three months to march into a cinema without a wingman, and my inner critic is yelling: People will think you’ve got…
“Are you away again?”
That’s not so much a question these days as my friends’ default greeting—delivered via WhatsApp, Facebook, Snapchat, or whatever new platform the kids invent between take-off and landing. And, to be fair, they’ve got a point. So far this year I’ve racked up Thailand, Las Vegas, Dublin, India, Portugal… Hold up—scrolls frantically through camera roll—oh…
Happy Fathers Day
Father’s Day is, at its most delightful, a harmless coup d’état in which Dad is crowned Emperor of the Living-Room for precisely twenty-four hours. This year my coronation was stage-managed by a seven-year-old valet clutching a massage gun like a royal sceptre: cushions were plumped, tea materialised before I could so much as yawn, and—for…
Writing is like that old friend you haven’t seen in years…
The one you barely hear from, but when you finally meet, it’s like you never left. There’s a comfort, a familiarity, a feeling of being home that washes over you. You pick up right where you left off, and it feels great. That’s how I feel about writing.
Let Them Play: Why Parents Should Step Back from the Sideline
As a parent who regularly watches my son’s football matches, I’ve seen firsthand how the sideline can become a noisy battleground of misplaced advice and overzealous coaching. Parents, many of whom have likely never kicked a ball in anger, suddenly morph into self-proclaimed tactical masterminds, channeling their inner José Mourinho. While the intent might be…
I’m Back: A Fresh Start on Nobody Cares About Dad
It’s been a while, hasn’t it? Life has a funny way of pulling us in different directions, and somewhere along the way, I hit pause on writing. But now, I’m back. Back to doing what I love, back to pouring my thoughts and experiences onto the page, and back to connecting with all of you…
The Weight of the World: A Journey Through the Pressure We Carry
There are moments in life when the weight on our shoulders feels unbearable. We walk through our days with a smile that doesn’t quite reach our eyes, trying to mask the internal battles we wage. We show up, we persist, we push forward, but deep down, there’s a quiet voice that whispers, “Sometimes I feel…
Order a Kitchen through Wren Kitchens and Have Part of it Installed by a Paedophile!
Order a Kitchen through Wren Kitchens and Have Part of it Installed by a Paedophile!
Never fear a storm, learn to dance in the rain
Life is full of unavoidable storms, and embracing vulnerability, seeking community support, and practicing mindfulness can help us navigate life’s challenges. Viewing setbacks as opportunities for growth and seeking professional help when needed are crucial. Engaging in physical activity and practicing gratitude can lead to a more fulfilling life despite the storms.
Shall we talk about Egypt…
Let’s dive into a story about Egypt that swings from laughter to lament, sprinkled with a dash of history to spice things up, shall we? Picture this: Me, embarking on a holiday odyssey, a trek that I hoped would tick off dream destinations from my bucket list. Turkey? Check, and gladly left behind. And now,…
Being There for Your Kids: A Light-Hearted Reflection
Let’s be brutally honest for a moment: a lot of the activities our children partake in are…well, less than thrilling. I can almost hear the chorus of outraged parents clamouring, “Certainly not my child!” But yes, even yours. Whether it’s enduring the annual swimming gala or sitting through yet another Christmas nativity play, let’s ask…
Breaking the Silence: Tackling Male Loneliness and Building Lasting Connections in Middle Age
Viewing this video ignited a spark of inspiration within me, setting the stage for the creation of this blog… In contemporary society, the art of forging enduring connections seems to disproportionately challenge men, leading to an escalating trend of solitude as they age. This growing epidemic of male loneliness is underscored by alarming statistics, revealing…
I am a domestic abuser..
In a society quick to judge and slow to inquire, an innocent incident has inadvertently cast me in a role I never auditioned for — that of the villain in a narrative all too familiar and disturbingly misconstrued. This tale begins not with malice or misconduct, but with an unforeseen accident involving my wife and…
Reflecting on Parenthood in a Changing World: Insights from True Detective and Personal Experience
I know i am late top the party with True Detective season three so bare with me! this new season with Jodie Foster got me back tracking through old seasons. As the haunting narrative of True Detective Season 3 unfolds, with the chilling case of two missing children at its core, it serves not only…
A Tragic Tale of Loss: The Heartbreaking Story of Bronson Battersby
In the realm of fatherhood, where joy and challenges intertwine, we sometimes encounter stories that shake us to our core. As a father myself, sharing such tales is not just an act of storytelling; it’s a journey through emotions that resonate deeply with every parent. Today, I bring to you a narrative that is gut-wrenching…
In a World Full of Critics: Why It’s Okay to Say ‘F*** ‘Em’”
In the grand theatre of life, there’s a bewildering cast of characters, each with their own opinions, judgments, and criticisms. Some folks are born critics, always ready to dislike you for reasons as flimsy as a paper umbrella in a monsoon. But here’s the thing, dear reader: it’s perfectly okay to utter those two liberating…
A People Watcher’s Delight at Pete and Jess Taylor’s Wedding
As a self-proclaimed people watcher, there’s nothing more fascinating than being a fly on the wall in a room filled with strangers. This was precisely my experience at Pete and Jess Taylor’s recent wedding. With an impressive guest list of 200, I found myself in the comfortable position of knowing just a handful of attendees.…
Finding Refuge in Dreams of Venice: Contemplating Life Abroad Amidst the UK’s Cost of Living Crisis
The gondolas of Venice, gently rocking in the tranquil canals during my Christmas visit, sparked in me a profound sense of reflection. As someone deeply moved by the charm of foreign lands, I’ve always been drawn to the idea of living abroad. This sentiment has grown stronger in the face of the escalating cost of…
Beyond the Festive Lights: A Single Dad’s December Journey
As January dawns, bringing an end to the festive season, we often find ourselves contemplating the experiences of the past month. For many, December is a time of joy and togetherness, but for single fathers, this season can paint a distinctly different picture—one marked by solitude and resilience. In this piece, we explore the unique…
Hamilton in Manchester: A Theatrical Duel with Great Expectations
Anticipation hung in the air like a well-rehearsed overture as I eagerly awaited the arrival of Hamilton to the grand stage of Manchester. Having been enchanted by Lin Manuel Miranda’s masterpiece on Disney, I had built up expectations taller than the Empire State Building. The original show, with its all-star cast hitting every note and…
The Silent Struggle: Fathers Denied Christmas Access to Their Children
In the season of joy and family gatherings, there exists a silent struggle that often goes unnoticed—the emotional turmoil experienced by fathers who are denied the opportunity to spend Christmas with their children. This heart-wrenching phenomenon casts a shadow on the festive spirit, as countless men grapple with the pain of separation during a time…
Unveiling the Reality of Friendships: Navigating the Ephemeral and the Timeless
Friendships, like the ebb and flow of the tide, have a natural rhythm. Some friends drift into our lives like passing ships, leaving behind fleeting memories, while others anchor themselves, becoming an integral part of the journey. The truth about friends is a multifaceted tale, revealing the transience of some connections and the enduring strength…
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