The honest truth about fatherhood, loss, masculinity, and rebuilding yourself when no one’s watching.
Most men don’t talk about it.
Some don’t know how.
Others were never shown it mattered.
This is for the dads who stay silent.
The ones who show up anyway.
“No man stands taller than when he stoops to help a child.”
– Abraham Lincoln
This isn’t a parenting blog.
There are no “10 hacks to be a better dad” here.
No perfect routines.
No curated moments.
This is about:
- Loving your kids when you don’t get them every day
- Grieving parents who shaped you and then disappeared
- Carrying responsibility without applause
- Being strong without pretending you’re fine
If you’ve ever felt invisible as a man or a father, you’re in the right place.
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Wanting material goods
Wanting material goods Is fine, as long as you want them for the right reasons.. I used to be THAT GUY! you know the type, the guy that wears the flashy clothes, the flashy watches and drives the car he can’t really afford, and I did it all for you! Out of some unrealistic expectation Read more
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Racism in Football – Live virtual Social W/ Allan Ross
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-59p62-108cf37 Racism in football – The lads sit down with Allan Ross who’s story featured on BBC news when he was racially abused by a fan during a football match that led to the fan being charged. in the wake of Sunday nights abuse of the young England players this podcast comes at the perfect Read more
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Cutting the TV in half
We have two TVs in this house, one in the kitchen one in the front room, so what happens when you can’t stand what your wife watches on TV or your wife can’t stand what you watch on TV? Easy answer, one of us watches tv in the front room and one of us watches Read more
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Dad Chat – Episode 16 – Ben Kershaw “your arm falls off people hug you, if your brain switches off nobody cares”
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-uk3u9-106fd3b This week we sat down and open up about depression with Ben Kershaw, Ben is the CEO of Golden Egg Group and he share with us his journey from being adopted as a child, living with Sickle Cell Anemia and the challenges that has on one’s mental health added that to the pressure of Read more
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Fatherhood Movie
Click here for the audio version ^ I have just finished watching the movie Fatherhood on Netflix and right from the start let me tell you that I am not a Kevin Hart fan, in fact I put this movie on 3 days ago and turned it off after the first scene when I noticed Read more
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Greed is the biggest virus’s to hit this planet
We tell ourself that capitalism is the way forward, governments ram it down your throat that democracy is the mother of all great ideas, “ignore the socialist’s forget communism” you’ll often hear our politicians spew from their lips, but is it? A capitalist society breeds greed, it feeds a narrative of take take take, we’ve Read more
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My Thoughts on being a father ~
“From the moment I heard I was going to be a father, I knew my world would never be the same.”
Nobody Cares About Dad 