The honest truth about fatherhood, loss, masculinity, and rebuilding yourself when no one’s watching.
Most men don’t talk about it.
Some don’t know how.
Others were never shown it mattered.
This is for the dads who stay silent.
The ones who show up anyway.
“No man stands taller than when he stoops to help a child.”
– Abraham Lincoln
This isn’t a parenting blog.
There are no “10 hacks to be a better dad” here.
No perfect routines.
No curated moments.
This is about:
- Loving your kids when you don’t get them every day
- Grieving parents who shaped you and then disappeared
- Carrying responsibility without applause
- Being strong without pretending you’re fine
If you’ve ever felt invisible as a man or a father, you’re in the right place.

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Gerard Long Episode #29 Dealing with the death of 2 of your children & dying for 30 mins
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-mu52v-1258323 Gerard has been through it all! from the death of two of his children and dying for 30 mins, Gerard has experienced it all and has used his life experiences to help others with his recent book and the community he has built through https://awakeningtogod.org/ #awakeningtogod #losingyourkids Read more
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Being famous is a weird concept…
I was in a London bar last Thursday and Marcell who was on Love Island a few years back entered the bar, to me this guy is barely famous but a glance around the bar and almost everybody wanted a piece of him, it got me thinking “isn’t being famous a weird concept” It’s strange Read more
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The importance of positive self talk | Nobody Cares About Dad
People who are happy generally have high self-esteem and a good opinion about themselves. Positive thinking is the key to success in life. When you improve your ability to think positively, you can achieve anything! The way we speak to ourselves is important for our mental health, If you are constantly being drowned out by Read more
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Happy 4th Birthday Son
Four years ago today my life changed forever! May 2018 was one of the craziest months in my 37 years on the planet. May has always been a strange month for me as in 2005 a good friend of mine killed himself, I always remember at the time Dave was the first person I had Read more
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Beth Webster Episode #28 ”Everything In Texas Is Bigger & Better”
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-2tr97-121b4d0 This week the lads sat down with Beth Webster from Austin Texas who is also a podcaster but has spent most of her life writing. We talk about what it’s like for men today, growing up in New York and general chat about life and how she nearly wrote a movie that Eric Clapton Read more
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Dad, can I have a cuddle?
I never really put much thought into the type of father I would be. I just kind of assumed that I would be a good one. But now that I am a father, I realise that there is so much more to it than just being a good person. Sure, being a good role model Read more
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“From the moment I heard I was going to be a father, I knew my world would never be the same.”



