The honest truth about fatherhood, loss, masculinity, and rebuilding yourself when no one’s watching.
Most men don’t talk about it.
Some don’t know how.
Others were never shown it mattered.
This is for the dads who stay silent.
The ones who show up anyway.
“No man stands taller than when he stoops to help a child.”
– Abraham Lincoln
This isn’t a parenting blog.
There are no “10 hacks to be a better dad” here.
No perfect routines.
No curated moments.
This is about:
- Loving your kids when you don’t get them every day
- Grieving parents who shaped you and then disappeared
- Carrying responsibility without applause
- Being strong without pretending you’re fine
If you’ve ever felt invisible as a man or a father, you’re in the right place.
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Finding Refuge in Dreams of Venice: Contemplating Life Abroad Amidst the UK’s Cost of Living Crisis
The gondolas of Venice, gently rocking in the tranquil canals during my Christmas visit, sparked in me a profound sense of reflection. As someone deeply moved by the charm of foreign lands, I’ve always been drawn to the idea of living abroad. This sentiment has grown stronger in the face of the escalating cost of Read more
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Beyond the Festive Lights: A Single Dad’s December Journey
As January dawns, bringing an end to the festive season, we often find ourselves contemplating the experiences of the past month. For many, December is a time of joy and togetherness, but for single fathers, this season can paint a distinctly different picture—one marked by solitude and resilience. In this piece, we explore the unique Read more
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Season 2 Lad Chat 1 – Can Men & Women Be Friends
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-ig4ek-1529b22 Brand new line up for the podcasts return this week I am joined by Stu, Mark and Jordan to discuss the age old question. Can men and women be friends. Sorry audio isnt great on this one. Read more
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Season 2 Preview
https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-cktmd-152420f Nobody Cares About Dad podcast is returning for another bout of dad chats. Here is the podcast before the new podcast… Brand new line up for the lad chats and some one on one interviews with men and women. Read more
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Hamilton in Manchester: A Theatrical Duel with Great Expectations
Anticipation hung in the air like a well-rehearsed overture as I eagerly awaited the arrival of Hamilton to the grand stage of Manchester. Having been enchanted by Lin Manuel Miranda’s masterpiece on Disney, I had built up expectations taller than the Empire State Building. The original show, with its all-star cast hitting every note and Read more
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The Silent Struggle: Fathers Denied Christmas Access to Their Children
In the season of joy and family gatherings, there exists a silent struggle that often goes unnoticed—the emotional turmoil experienced by fathers who are denied the opportunity to spend Christmas with their children. This heart-wrenching phenomenon casts a shadow on the festive spirit, as countless men grapple with the pain of separation during a time Read more
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My Thoughts on being a father ~
“From the moment I heard I was going to be a father, I knew my world would never be the same.”
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